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Seven things you shouldn’t do in a promising relationship

Seven things you shouldn't do in a promising relationship
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1. You should not stop putting in an effort. This situation occurs when you are so comfortable with someone – all of a sudden you’ll simply stop trying.

Never stop putting effort to encourage or how to make your partner feel comfortable
Never stop putting effort to encourage or how to make your partner feel comfortable

This lifestyle will also force you to have the mentality of not – encouraging your partner, no memories of birthdays, anniversaries and romantic dates. When your effort is gone, you will also stop trying to get the best for your partner and you’d just don’t have time to make them feel special.

Do not try to lose yourself while you share the things you love
Do not try to lose yourself while you share the things you love

2. Do Not Lose Your Sense of Self: In a relationship, so many people lose who they are. In trying to pretend to fit-in in your spouse’s interests such as hobbies, styles and everything, you shouldn’t lose focus on the things you are made of. It is okay to share what you love with the person you are in love with but no matter how in love you may be with a person, you should still always have yourself and cherish your independence.

There is no reason to cheat, if you do not want the relationship anymore, just call for break-up
There is no reason to cheat, if you do not want the relationship anymore, just call for a break-up

3. Do Not Cheat: If you no longer love your partner, call him or her for a break-up talk rather than cheating. There is no reason to cheat if you have seen everything you need in that person.

Do not forget your friends when you are in a relationship
Do not forget your friends when you are in a relationship

4. Remember your Friends: You entered into a new relationship and all of a sudden, your friends become your obstacles in getting a perfect life with your partner because you are so caught up with that person. Remember, your friends have been in such position before and there is a good chance that they will still be with you when things do not go right because they have stood by your side longer than your spouse.

Do not compare your spouse or relationship with someone else's
Do not compare your spouse or relationship with someone else’s

5. Never compare your partner with anyone else: This is where you get it wrong. The moment you compare your partner, you have started losing the trust in your relationship. There shouldn’t be a moment you should compare your date with your previous one. If your “ex” was perfect, why did the relationship failed to work? Comparing your spouse is a sign of no respect, and I have never seen a promising relationship without respect.

Do not try to change someone to your ideal kind of person.
Do not try to change someone to your ideal kind of person.

6. Do not try to change who they are: You are getting it all wrong if you try to change who they are. Take them how they are or just leave them, that’s it. You can not force someone to be what he doesn’t want to be, all in the name of “I want him to be the kind of person I wish to have” You are not a creator of being, so it won’t work.

Leave the past where it belongs because a promising relationship focus on the present
Leave the past where it belongs because a promising relationship focus on the present

7. Avoid Bringing the past to the present: This is a big NO!!. Never try this when an argument is on. In a promising relationship, one only focuses on the present and not things which happened a long time ago. No matter how brutal a fight might get, you should never bring up an event in the past whether it’s a good event or bad one.

You have to leave the past and never bring it up in a current situation. Maybe your partner cheated on you or fucked things and made it tough for you, you have no right at all to bring it up again and use it as ammunition. You got to leave the past where it belongs.

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